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11月29日 21 tips to live byONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. FOUR. ! When you say, "I love you," mean it. FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye. SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight. EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much. NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives. TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions. EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. NINETEEN . When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone! A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart. thank u Dharma for sharing them with me, and here i share it with any one who comes across this page. 11月20日 karoshi and other random thoughtsa japanese word, means work oneself to sudden death.
かろうし(karoshi / 过労死)
for people like me who has such bad tendency, it would be very hard to relax.
One good indicator is that I always tell others I am time poor, and when I have nothing to do expect the daily routine work in the office, I would somewhat feel obligatory to read, to have a better understanding of reinsurance, to catch up with the development, domestically and overseas, or simply to worry why I have nothing to do! Sometimes I envy Bovic’s life, he could go enjoy the CQ delis and take care of his spiritual needs. I can never remember when I actually sit down in a sofa, cozy and comfortable, with tea or coffee, chatting on any topics that come to my mind, with friends who share the same interests. The true exchange of ideas is such a luxury when almost everyone is busy with their life. Had a short conversation with Lana the other day, and felt it so helpless to know that there are things you can never come close to get rid of, or find some souls to really relate and appreciate. She with the Chinese paining, me with my own little brain. Maybe this is a mental problem. Or the dry and dull weather in this place deprives me of coming up with any fresh thoughts, Man thinks, God laughs I remember it so well, and now I see how appropriate it is. An atheist I am, I seem to have abused the name already. But again, this statement is a paradox in its own right. Should we look back, or should we just press ahead?
11月10日 changesmall changes take place everyday.
like the interface in gmail and in this space
the dismantled shanty towns somewhere
the fallen leaves, which were still dancing in the hawling wind last week.
a different UN boss
return of the party in US politics,
the diffrence of being a student with tons of free time and a full time with no time to visit a friend
the role change, from depdendent to independent wage earner, making someones feel deserted.
two beauties gracing to facade of the silk street replaced by two maps, of China and Africa.
and ready food awaiting you, no more cooking for oneself.
quitting of Jolin, change of phone number
disabling of a msn account of her, to end the sadness and the pain.
and a letter to his father in paradise, when a few months ago i was told he was still in ICU.
a newly married friend told me her life did not change much except that she felt more secure, despite the fact her husband is aways travelling in other cities.
and still more notice of getting married , news from former classmates
and i grow, i learn something everyday, Like A Presto, like SA,
and about life itself.
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